Have you already forgotten all of your New Year’s resolutions because you didn’t write them down? Or maybe you’ve already given up after a few weeks because you’ve blown your good intentions and returned to your bad habits. Don’t give up yet! I’ve made one more short video in this series about making and keeping your resolutions. Continue reading
I hope your new year is off to a good start! Before you make any resolutions, think about the changes you want to make and what will motivate you to keep them. Continue reading
Since publishing my Christian fiction novel, “Elephant in the Room,” and writing about the issue of gluttony on my website for a year, I recognize that many people are thinking about making New Year’s resolutions about changing their eating habits and improving their physical fitness. I’ve made a short video with a few good reasons why you should NOT make those resolutions right now. Wait! Continue reading
With only a few days before Christmas, I’m not going to convince you to change your traditions for this year. But now is a great time to think about this important issue while you’re in the midst of the holiday hustle and bustle. Do you have babies that are mesmerized by the sparkling lights? What will you tell them about Santa in a few years? Do you have children who see the fat guy in the red suit on every street corner? Can you help them discern between real and fantasy? Do you have teenagers looking for hypocrisy in your speech? How you talk about Santa matters.
To help you think about how to deal with Santa, I wrote an article called Let’s Talk about Santa Claus about telling the truth about the fictional character.
When I write my first Christian fiction novel, “Elephant in the Room,” I was surprised when a professional Santa Claus showed up as one of my characters. I remember thinking about weight issues and into my mind popped the man acclaimed for his tummy that shook like a bowl full of jelly when he laughed. You can read more about him in the article, Meet Nick Saint.
One More Bonus Perspective: I enjoyed Michelle Lesley’s recent blog post about Christmas Tradition Do-Overs and Do-Overs-and-Overs. Here’s what she wrote about talking about Santa Claus with her children.
8. I’m glad we handled Santa Claus the way we did.
We decided before we had children that we would not lie to them about the existence or omniscience (he sees you when you’re sleeping, he knows when you’re awake, he knows if you’ve been bad or good, etc.) of Santa Claus. The Bible says that lying is a sin, period. There’s no exception for jolly old elves who pass out toys (or for tooth fairies or Easter bunnies, for that matter). But there’s nothing wrong with the fun of Santa as long as he arrives on the scene without lies or claims to attributes only God possesses. So we sang Santa songs and told Santa stories, but on Christmas Eve, our children knew it was Mom and Dad filling the stockings. When they were very small, my husband or I would don a Santa hat and say something like: “You know how you like to play pretend? Well, mommies and daddies like to play pretend, too, especially at Christmas! Now it’s time for you to go to bed so we can pretend to be Santa Claus.” So far, no one is in therapy from us handling the Santa Claus story this way, plus there were no conspiracies with the older children to keep the secret from the younger ones, and no moments of devastation as each child grew up and found out the truth.
How do you talk to your children about Santa? Do you need to confess to your children that you have been lying to them? How can you help them worship Christ at Christmas?
On Saturday, November 11, I celebrated
the launch of my first Christian fiction novel,
“Elephant in the Room,” Continue reading
With Christmas coming in a few weeks, it’s good to talk about this now: What do you do about Santa Claus? Continue reading
Who is it? To be able to answer this question, you need to have read my Christian fiction novel, “Elephant in the Room.” Continue reading
You may have noticed that I posted the Book Club Discussion Questions out of numerical order, so finally, here is Question #1. Continue reading
Many people have asked me about the Gift Bags that the Harvey family put together to give away to needy people (described in Chapter 21 of my book, “Elephant in the Room.”). I’ve been making them for years with my daughters and friends, so I’m happy to share some instructions with you.
Rather than try to write out detailed directions to assemble the bags, I have made a four-minute video with my friend Charlotte showing you How to Make a Gift Bag for the Needy! CLICK HERE to view the video.
I hope you find that video helpful so that you will try making Gift Bags and give them away at the next opportunity. For more information, I have also provided some free printed documents that you can download (just CLICK on each item below):
- a list of supplies, non-perishable food and hygiene items to fill the bag,
- sample information about services from our local Rescue Mission, and
- a copy of John 3:16 for children to color and tuck into the bag for encouragement .
Please comment below if you make and give away some Gift Bags. Or share your ideas of how you can meet the needs of hungry and hurting people in your community.
The word “mortify” is rich in history and meaning. Continue reading